I recently stayed at a friend’s apartment for a few days, and in so many directions where I looked, there were sweet, little messages and reminders of what matters. I look in the mirror, and see a little sign that says, “You’re beautiful!” I turn a corner and see, “You’re terrific!” I go to wash my hands and am reminded of how precious and capable they are: “Please wash your precious, capable hands.”
There were words of poetry, quotes, and reminders to uphold and honor the lives of people who are most frequently marginalized in our country.
Reminders everywhere.
What reminders do you need? If you need to, write them down and display them. At the very least, tell yourself often. And tell yourself beautifully.
—Renee Roederer
Smuggling Grace 