“Everything Means”

Father Greg Boyle

During my very first semester of seminary, I had a class with an adjunct professor who taught us about the history and theology of Christian worship. I am sad to say that I don’t remember his name. He was only with us for one semester, filling in for a professor who was on Sabbatical. I appreciated him.

But twenty years later (Um… Wow) from time to time, I still think about something he said to us:

“In worship, everything means.”

When we enter a time and place that is deemed sacred, and when we engage rituals that connect people to a sense of what they believe is most Ultimate and important, every single thing we do carries meaning.

I remember him adding, “So if someone is reading a scripture, and you’re up there looking at your worship notes, not paying attention, that carries a great deal of meaning, too.”

Now, two decades later, I also like to blur the lines between what is considered sacred and what is considered mundane or ordinary. If we are more aware of that which is Ultimate to us in every day life — yes, this may be for us, God; but it may also be Loves, or Values, or- or — perhaps everything might mean more to us.

“Everything means.” Everything carries meaning. And we are more aware to receive it and appreciate it.

Along those lines, here’s a story I love from Father Greg Boyle. He’s the founder of Homeboy Industries, an organization that provides healing, connection, and jobs to people who have left gangs or have been recently incarcerated. I’m lifting this from the transcript of a conversation he had with Krista Tippett on her podcast, On Being.

“I think we’re afraid of the incarnation. And part of it, the fear that drives us is that we have to have our sacred in a certain way. It has to be gold-plated, and cost of millions and cast of thousands or something, I don’t know. And so we’ve wrestled the cup out of Jesus’s hand, and we’ve replaced it with a chalice, because who doesn’t know that a chalice is more sacred than a cup, never mind that Jesus didn’t use a chalice?

“And a story I tell in the book about a homie who was — on Christmas Day, I said, ‘What’d you do on Christmas?’ And he was an orphan, and abandoned and abused by his parents, and worked for me in our graffiti crew. And I said, ‘What’d you do for Christmas?’ ‘Oh, just right here.’ I said, ‘Alone?’ And he said, ‘No, I invited six other guys from the graffiti crew who didn’t had no place to go,’ he said. ‘And they were all…’ He named them, and they were enemies with each other. I said, ‘What’d you do?’ He goes, ‘You’re not gonna believe it. I cooked a turkey.’

“I said, ‘Well, how’d you prepare the turkey?’ He says, ‘Well, you know, ghetto-style.’ And I said, ‘No, I don’t think I’m familiar with that recipe.’ And he said, ‘Well, you rub it with a gang of butter, and you squeeze two limones on it, and you put salt and pepper, put it in the oven. Tasted proper,’ he said. I said, ‘Wow. Well, what else did you have besides turkey?’ ‘Well, that’s it, just turkey.”

“’Yeah, the seven of us, we just sat in the kitchen, staring at the oven, waiting for the turkey to be done. Did I mention it tasted proper?’ I said, ‘Yeah, you did.’

“So what could be more sacred than seven orphans, enemies, rivals, sitting in a kitchen, waiting for a turkey to be done? Jesus doesn’t lose any sleep that we will forget that the Eucharist is sacred. He is anxious that we might forget that it’s ordinary, that it’s a meal shared among friends, and that’s the incarnation, I think.”

Everything means.

Renee Roederer

January 6: Remembering the Difficult Truths

Wikimedia Image

Over the weekend, I listened to two important podcasts, and I would like to share them today if others may also find them helpful.

Sometimes, it’s difficult to revisit the details of the insurrection that took place on January 6, 2021. If those emotions are difficult or if they trigger fears, feel free to skip these and take good care. But I share them because in some circles, there has been so much gaslighting and re-writing of history of what took place on this anniversary four years ago. I believe it’s important to honor and remember those details accurately.

NPR’s Up First — On January 6: Does the Military Have an Extremist Problem?

“As Congress meets tomorrow to certify the results of the 2024 election, it also marks the 4-year anniversary of the attack on the Capitol. The participants of the riot on January 6, 2021 intended to disrupt the certification process of the 2020 election results. When it was all over four people were dead, 140 law enforcement officers were wounded and there was nearly $3 million in damage.

“There were people from all walks of life at the Capitol that day, but one thing that many of them had in common? Military ties. That reality is something that the military is still grappling with today. On this episode of The Sunday Story from Up First, we are joined by NPR Pentagon correspondent Tom Bowman and producer Lauren Hodges, who were both at the Capitol reporting that day.”

New Hampshire Public Radio — Emelia’s Thing: Trauma and Resilience on Jan. 6

“A young police officer unexpectedly finds herself back in New Hampshire, and she’s not the same person she was when she left. Something happened to her – to all of us. But for Officer Emelia Campbell, this thing still lives in her brain and her body.

“Lauren Chooljian of NHPR’s Document team brings you Emelia’s story of survival and resilience in the wake of Jan. 6, 2021.”

There Are Many Routes to the Values

A winding road up a mountain. Public domain.

Sometimes, we long for something very specific. Maybe it’s an experience, a hope, something material, or something relational. We picture it clearly, envisioning exactly how it will look or unfold. But if it doesn’t arrive in the way we imagine, or on the timetable we most desire, can feel like a profound loss. Deflation sets in. Sometimes, we even feel powerless.

But here’s a different way to think about it: What values are drawing us to that specific thing? What are the deeper needs or desires connected to it?

Once we name those values, we might find that there are probably like numerous ways to cultivate them in our lives. Maybe we’re longing for connection, creativity, security, or joy. The thing we’re imagining might feel like the perfect vessel, but it’s not the only one.

And who knows? That specific experience, hope, or relationship might still emerge, exactly as we envisioned. But even if it doesn’t, our emotions won’t feel as contingent on that one outcome. We’ll have already found other paths to the values that matter most.

There are many routes to the values. It’s worth exploring where they might lead.

Renee Roederer

Culmination Points

The face of an analog clock, with the outer edge making ripples. Public domain.

We often frame our lives as a series of steps leading to something else—the next season, the next opportunity, the next chapter. This forward-thinking posture is natural, but it risks eclipsing the fullness of where we already are.

What if we challenged ourselves to see certain moments not as launching pads for what’s next, but as culmination points? These are moments when we can pause to recognize the people and experiences that have brought a particular moment into being.

This year, I want to notice these culmination points. I hope to pause, notice how moments have emerged, and honor the gratitude for the people and experiences within them.

Renee Roederer

The Journey by Mary Oliver

This photo is from the shore of Lake Michigan in Racine, Wisconsin.
Photo: Renee Roederer

The Journey

One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice–
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
“Mend my life!”
each voice cried.
But you didn’t stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voices behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do–
determined to save
the only life you could save.

— Mary Oliver

Happy New Year.

You’re worth it.

The Weirdest Christmas Carol Line

Nativity Scene by Linnaea Mallette. Public Domain.

I love singing “O Come All Ye Faithful” on Christmas Eve. Though I suppose it could be sung again any time during the 12-Day season of Christmas, I typically only sing this once per year. It’s wonderful when an organ is leading it loudly in concert with all the voices, or as I experienced this year, alongside a brass ensemble, too.

I did not get to sing the line that typically makes me laugh though. It’s just an absurd line. We didn’t sing that verse.

The verse in question begins with,
God of God, Light of Light…

And then we get to the line in question:
Lo, he abhors not the virgin’s womb!

What a weird thing to say. I mean, we could say anything about this newborn baby, or make great meaning about the Christ, but instead, we have this bizarre exclamation:

Well, would ya look at that! Can you believe this tiny baby actually does not detest with perfect hatred the uterus of his virgin mother?!? How amazing is it that he does not abhor it? Not even one little bit!

Just a wildly weird thing to say. Also, is he supposed to abhor it? Is there like a de facto abhoring that most people would have, but he’s just rising above it? Or are we saying, well, you’d think he’d abhor that womb, but I think that crying baby would rather be back in there!

Who knows.

Instead, like this quote better. Cole Arthur Riley writes,

“For me, the story of God becoming body is only matched by God’s submission to the body of a woman. That the creator of the cosmos would choose to rely on an embodied creation. To be grown, fed, delivered—God put faith in a body. In Mary’s muscles and hormones, bowels and breasts. And when Christ’s body is broken and blood shed, we should hold in mystery that first a woman’s body was broken, her blood shed, in order to deliver the hope of the world into the world.  

“We are remarkably material beings. When we speak of bearing the image of God, I believe no small part of that is a physical bearing. You may have heard it said, ‘You don’t have a soul. You are a soul. You have a body.’ I’m not sure exactly where this notion came from, but the sentiment survives. Many of us, in pursuit of the spiritual, become woefully neglectful of the physical. We concern ourselves with a doctrine of salvation that is oriented around one underlying hope: heaven. And our concepts of heaven are often disembodied—a spiritual goal to transcend the material world eternally…. 

Our tales of Christian escapism lead us to the place where the physical is damned and the immaterial is gloried. Where the only holy things are invisible. How could you expect me to believe this when I’ve met a God who drank from the breast of his creation? [1] 

Yes, that’s much better.

Renee Roederer

[1] Cole Arthur Riley, This Here Flesh: Spirituality, Liberation, and the Stories That Make Us (New York: Convergent, 2022), 57, 58. 

Mental Health Monday: Day One

Text: One Day or Day One — Your Choice

“What are you waiting for? Today is the day.

“To write the novel. To forgive your mother. To embrace your sister. To pick up your paintbrush. To set down your grudge. To love the skin you are in. To light the world with your light.”

— Regina Brett

Thanks to my friend MaryBeth for sharing this over the weekend. I thought I’d share it here as well.