I really love this list by Malanda Jean-Claude.
5 things we never say to people we love but we should:
1. it is an honor that we exist in the same space and time didn’t choose to separate us by eons.
2. the world is a better place with your soul in it.
3. laughing with you plucks anxiety out of my heart, you are a gift to my lungs.
4. your past is not a threat, it’s what brought you to me.
5. i pray about you, still.
I’m going to make an effort to say at least one of these this weekend.