Smuggling Grace

My 40th birthday was more than a month ago, but this year, I asked my loved ones for something unique. I asked them to pick a random month of the year and surprise me with something. I said it doesn’t need to be big — no flash mobs needed. But I dearly love surprises, and I thought it would be fun to spread that energy throughout a whole year.

I’ve received boxes of goodies in the mail and a new coffee mug that I love. I’ve been surprise sledding and surprise roller skating. One person — and this is so generous — is making me a surprise meal once per month. Last weekend, she made me linguine from scratch. How lucky am I?

And then last night, I shared a text with a young adult I love to see if we wanted to pick up watching where we left off with Buffy the Vampire Slayer (My favorite show ever! We watching it all bit by bit, and we sync our screens over distance.) “How about 8:30?” she replied.

“Yep,” I replied simply.

8:30pm rolled around, and my doorbell rang. She drove from an hour away to watch it with me in person!

SURPRISE!

I loved it.

-Renee Roederer

To my great surprise, I woke up this morning with a migraine and intense, lower back pain. (What is this? Is this 40? Just kidding. I think.) I have no idea why. I do get migraines a few times a year, but back pain is not common at all for me. It’s also gotten progressively better throughout the morning, thankfully.

Michigan Nones and Dones, one of the communities I help organize, meets on Saturday, and there are many people there who can also help to lead and welcome newcomers. By the time I got on the screen, I felt a bit better, but they all did this.

Part of leadership is nurturing the leadership of others and/or just getting out of the way and letting them do what they are already so good at doing.

–Renee Roederer

One of my favorite, quirky-but-true things to think about is how we have never resided in the same physical space. It may feel like it, but that’s not true in a cosmic scale. By this time tomorrow, we will have collectively hurtled 10 million miles through space, as our planet revolves around a sun that is also revolving around the center of the Milky Way. And the universe itself is expanding, so every second, we hurtling and residing in a space we’ve never resided in before.

So when it comes to our own lives, why do we think we have to stay in the same rut we’ve been in for so long?

–Renee Roederer

We’re supposed to get more snow today. I expect that it, too, will look pretty. Shoot, it may even feel magical in its own way. But I confess… I’m a bit over it.

So today, my best blessing is for people who are over it.
Over the winter,
Over the pandemic,
Over difficult dynamics,
Over unsustainable rhythms,
Over the things that keep us up at night.

Blessings to everyone who is over it. Whatever the it-s may be.

–Renee Roederer

Yesterday, during a Zoom call, one of my mentors said, “I never use the word ‘individual.’ We are unique people, and we have unique skills, talents, interests, and personalities. But I never use the word individual, because individualism is always ‘I will divide’-ism.”

I’m still thinking of that.

–Renee Roederer

Michigan Nones and Dones, one of the communities I help to organize, had a discussion last weekend about communal rhythms. During the pandemic, these have been much more infrequent, and we’ve been feeling this. We need a sense of shared experience.

As a result of this, we decided to create a communal rhythm of our own. Every day since then, we’ve all set an alarm on our phones for 5:55pm, and when that sounds, we take several minutes to think of each other and send hopes in each other’s direction. I have loved this every day. We are aware that we are holding each other gently, and we know we’re being thought about too.

It feels very meaningful to have awareness that all of this is happening at the same time.

–Renee Roederer

This sermon was preached with Covenant Presbyterian Church in Southfield, MI and was focused upon Luke 6:17-26. A written manuscript is below. 

Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the Kingdom of God…

Mother Teresa used to say, “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to one another.”

We long for peace… Peace of every kind…

And we do belong to one another… but have we forgotten?

How easy it is to forget… And yet God is always beckoning us back into this belonging, this Sacred Belonging rooted in connection with God, with our neighbors, and with the earth. God calls us to this again and again. And we find blessedness there — Blessedness in this larger form of Belonging.

As Jesus traveled around Galilee and Judea, he was surrounded by crowds. Large crowds. Sometimes, the crowds were so big and so pressing in their needs, that they began to press in upon him. There were times that he would find creative ways to step aside just a bit and work with nature so that he could address them collectively — getting into Simon Peter’s boat and pushing it out into the water, climbing up the Mount of Olives and letting it serve as a natural amphitheater, or here, coming down from a mountain where he and his disciples had been praying and standing on a level place to address the people.

In all of these moments, Jesus spoke to them all at once, and I wonder… As the members of these crowd stood or sat side by side, listening in the same direction, breathing in the same direction, and dreaming in the same direction… I wonder… did they remember once more that they belong to one another? Did they experience an invitation into that larger, Sacred Belonging? With God? With neighbors? With the earth? Did Jesus step away just a bit and turn them toward one another? Did he turn them toward a larger vision? A vision that could invigorate their own lives?

Biblical scholars call this section of the Gospel of Luke, The Sermon on the Plain. It’s very similar to the Sermon on the Mount, which is found in the Gospel of Matthew, but in Luke, it has its own unique telling. It’s possible that Jesus gave the same address, a very memorable one in his life and teaching, and Matthew and Luke recorded it differently, at the Mount of Olives and here, on a plain, and with different nuances.

But it’s also possible that these teachings of Jesus were a frequent address as he traveled. These teachings might have been one of his primary stump speeches, so to speak. He may have spoken them many times to different crowds, and as the disciples traveled along with him, they may have come to internalize these words. They may have come to a recognition that they belonged to the vision within them.

The Sermon on the Mount and the Sermon on the Plain both begin with words of blessedness. We might remember the opening words in Matthew which we called the Beatitudes —

Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven,

Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted,

and many more words of blessings.

But here, in the Sermon on the Plain, Jesus is much more direct:

Blessed are you who are poor —

not blessed are the poor, but blessed are you who are poor; not blessed are the poor in spirit, but blessed are you who are poor, poor right now —

for yours is the kingdom of God —

not for theirs is the kingdom of God, but for yours is the kingdom of God — yours, yes, right now.

These blessings are direct and for the people who seek belonging into this vision. They are present for those who find themselves suddenly held within the belonging of this vision.

And here, in the Sermon on the Plain, Jesus is much more direct with something Matthew does not include. He has a list of woes:

But woe to you who are rich, for you have received your consolation.

Woe to you who are full now, for you will be hungry.

Woe to you who are laughing now, for you will mourn and weep.

Woe to you when all speak well of you, for that is what the ancestors did to the false prophets.

These might be… harder to hear. And yet, do they cast some people —perhaps some of us — out of this larger Sacred Belonging? With God? With neighbors? And with the earth? Or…. do these words also call us right back in?

What is Jesus doing here? Of course, we can’t fully know, but I wonder if we might consider a few things. Jesus grew up as a recipient of scriptures from the Hebrew Bible which today are often called apocalyptic literature. These include scriptures from the prophets that speak about final things… about a sacred, final future when God will cosmically and dramatically liberate the poor and disenfranchised, destroying their enemies and every single force that seeks to oppress them. These scriptures are written from the perspective of those who are abused and humiliated, who need to proclaim the strength of a truly Liberating God toward a liberation that is truly longed for and deserved.

It is a Great Reversal of fortunes. Is that what Jesus is lifting up here?

Maybe.

But I also notice that these woes don’t really have cosmic, dramatic judgment attached. They don’t say, “Woe to you who are rich, for the moon will turn to blood and you will have fear and trembling on the great, final Day of the Lord.” They don’t say that.

No, they say things like, “Woe to you who are rich, for you have received your consolation.”

You sought riches, and you gained them on the backs of others, and you have them. And they make you impoverished in a totally different way.

They’ve separated you — or they give the illusion of separation to you, perhaps also giving the illusion of superiority to you, and from there, perhaps turning you against your neighbors so that you oppress them, and they do not have what they need.

You sought riches, and you’ve received your consolation.

You’re not living in alignment with this better vision, this transformative vision of the Kingdom of God.

The sun, moon, and stars are not falling out of the heavens here, but we shouldn’t underestimate these words of woe.

As Mother Teresa used to say, “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten we belong to one another.”

The Gospel of Matthew and the Gospel of Luke have their different nuances here in these words of blessing. But there’s one thing in common, one thing we could easily miss. I missed it for many years when I read these passages: In the midst of this great crowd — in both the Sermon on the Mount and the Sermon on the Plain — Jesus doesn’t begin by addressing the crowd as a whole. Instead, he addresses his disciples directly while the rest of the crowd watches.

He seems to make a division, and he puts an emphasis of the disciples. It isn’t the kind of separation that turns the gathered body against one another, Instead, it is a separation that invites. It is a separation that calls. It is a separation that beckons to us, saying,

“Come over here. Come to this blessedness. Come this Sacred Belonging. Come to your neighbors. Be gathered into this fullness. Follow me into this way of life. This is the way… not your riches, or your full bellies, or your too often shallow laughter, or your great reputations. Leave your trust in these. Come over here where there is life… where God is transformative, where neighbors matter and belong and have what they need — including from your riches. Come over here into a vision where the earth is filled with flourishing people and all of creation is transformed. Come over here.”

This is Sacred Belonging. This is our invitation.

The Great Reversal is likely much more than a flip-flop of fortunes. It is an invitation to remember again that we belong to one another — yes, right this moment –and we’re invited into the very blessing of that vision.

–Renee Roederer

The Michigan Sasquatch is REAL!

Mother Teresa used to say, “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to one another.”

This is wise and true. Injustice cannot be solved by one simple sentence or one simple framework. But it seems that our belonging, worth, and interconnection are central, crucial forms of recognition.

–Renee Roederer

I’m a big fan of the Enneagram. I’ve found it to be a helpful tool to gain greater understanding of myself, relationships, and whole teams of people. I especially like that it’s dynamic. It doesn’t just tell you, “You are like this,” or “this person is like this” — period. It’s a tool for growth, and we can use it to gain greater alignment with ourselves, our strengths, and our values. It’s also a tool that teaches us about our stress points.

Sarah Jane Case of the podcast “Enneagram and Coffee” created this list on Instagram this week (image above, text below). Whether we know our enneagram type or not, we might want to watch out for any of these signs in ourselves. These are indicators that we’ve reached our stress limit or are in a difficult place with our mental, emotional, and relational health. By type,

1 — Constant jaw pain

2 — Resentment

3 — Loss of motivation

4 — Dreaming of another life

5 — Not knowing who to tell you’re having a hard time

6 — Constantly complaining

7 — Not enjoying the present moment because you’re planning the next thing

8 — Hospitalization

9 — An outburst of anger

Good, good care for these. It’s okay to get here, though this of course, feels unpleasant. We’re all under immense, collective stressors, plus anything we are facing personally. We’re not alone in the stress, which also means we’re not alone — and now I’ll say, period. 🙂

Good, good, good, good care for these.

–Renee Roederer